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Life in the BKH Dormitory
One of the challenges we face
when trying to recruit BKH dormitory residents who can succeed is trying
to convince potential applicants that the program IS EXACTLY AS WE DESCRIBE
IT TO BE in all of this literature that we provide (website and application
materials). It's quite frankly amazing how many applicants choose not
to believe what we write and instead choose to believe that the program
will be exactly what their fantasy leads them to WISH it would be when
the first see the advertisement. It's as if they see the ad, get all excited
about their dreams coming true due to the fantasies their imaginations
conjure up upon seeing the ad, and then it's as if the lure to remain
in that fantasy world is so strong that they don't even read what's written
on the page in front of them. If you're interested in the program DO YOURSELF
A FAVOR!!! READ ALL THE MATERIAL IN THE WEBSITE AND IN THE APPLICATION
MATERIALS SO THERE WON'T BE ANY SURPRISES!!!

Below please find two essays that we've written
in an attempt to give you deeper insight into the reality of the program
so you'll be less likely to be surprised if you wind up becoming one of
the chosen few that make it here. We will add other essays as we determine
situations which we think applicants ought to be better informed about.
Please read the following essays:
1. Maturity, Responsibility, and Character
2. The Nature of the Work You
Will Do to Help Support BKH Financially
1. Maturity, Responsibility,
and Character
Although it may cease to sound like
an advertisement for the BKH program and start to sound more like
a warning as to why you should think twice before applying, please
consider the circumstances that lead up to the downfall of one
recent class of BKH residents. Keep in mind that this dismal description
is not a description of how it's supposed to be at BKH. It's just
a description of how bad it can get if residents are failing to
"get with the program."

As you progress here, more and more
will be expected of you in terms of responsibility, maturity and
leadership. Your instructor will teach you many things that combine
to make up a way of life (karate dormitory life based on the Japanese
model) that will provide every possible advantage to you in terms
of your chances of becoming strong, both physically, and in terms
of character. By the time you're in your second year here, it
will be expected of you that you are able to do some of the teaching
yourselves of junior dormitory members. You will teach them the
basic lessons that you were taught in the beginning so that your
instructor can concentrate on teaching you more advanced ones.
The primary way by which you will be expected to teach is by setting
the correct example.
Take for an example learning how to
clean up after your self, a lesson that many of us take for granted.
In order to become strong a group of guys living together, sharing
bedrooms, a kitchen, a bathroom and a laundry machine, etc., must
learn how to keep their surroundings neat. If they don't, if smelly
underwear gets left scattered around on the floor and dirty dishes
in the sink start to smell bad, and if you live in that kind of
environment day after day, it will become very difficult to live
with any degree of self-respect. And you can't expect to become
strong, of course, without self-respect. Many of you who read
this (unless you're parents of adolescents) will be amazed, but
many of these guys who apply to the BKH program aspiring to be
fighters and instructors dream of doing so in order to reshape
lives that aren't going very well and consequently they're often
not very good at taking care of themselves. There are very strict
rules in the dormitory concerning cleanliness and neatness and
if you arrive here and lack the discipline to follow those rules,
you will be compelled to do so. If you're told twice not to leave
dirty dishes or underwear around it's very likely that you'll
find yourself doing some kind of physical exercise that you'd
rather not be doing just then. "Don't clean up after yourself,
okay, do 100 pushups," something like that. That's one reason
why these undisciplined types tend to get so tough: If you can't
figure out how to pick up after yourself for three years, you
wind up doing an awful lot of push-ups.

Given that some new residents will already
possess a healthy level of personal neatness and won't have to
learn this type of lesson, if you do have to learn it, you will
be expected to figure out ultimately that the reason why you have
to pick up after yourself is BECAUSE IT'S A STRONGER WAY TO LIVE.
Unfortunately, however, the most advanced level of understanding
that this most recent group of senior dormitory members to fail
here mustered was that the reason why it was important to clean
up after themselves was because they were afraid of getting scolded
and having to do 100 pushups.
The age-old expression goes, "you
can take a horse to water, but you can't make him drink."
These last two "senior members of the dormitory"came
here from a history of adolescent issues that included violence
and lack of discipline at home and troubles with the law as adolescents
that resulted from a lack of appreciation for authority. Consequently,
by the time they reached their 2nd and 3rd years here and were
still getting scolded, and were still doing push-ups, instead
of setting an example for their junior members of how they'd learned
to live responsibly, instead of "getting with the program"
and learning the lesson as you or I might, they just got rebellious
and angry about the fact that they were getting so tough (winning
competitions) but were still getting scolded for not picking up
their underwear.
We tend to publish on the BKH website
our members' accomplishments in terms of tournament victories
and tend NOT to describe how they sometimes (as in the case of
these two guys) are failing in terms of other lessons vital to
making it successfully through the program. They themselves read
the website and think, "I'm starting to be somebody . . .
I'm a champion." As a result their self-opinion becomes elevated
and if they are, for whatever reason, unable to learn some of
the basic lessons of growing up - like learning how to clean up
after themselves for example - they start to resent it all the
more when they're criticized like young teenagers for they way
they're "failing to live like champions."
Now imagine this type of scenario and
apply it to more important issues than learning to clean up after
yourself. Imagine that after two or three years here you start
to become responsible for driving a BKH Dormitory automobile so
that you and your junior roommates can get to and from work and
training and grocery shopping etc. So, the first year is rough,
and a car or two gets destroyed, and the program director spends
hours and hours instructing and - sometime scolding - and trying
to make the dormitory's senior members understand how important
it is to check the oil level in the engine, and how important
it is to drive safely (rather than like a hot rod), because of
course the entire "unit" (i.e. BKH) is dependent on
that piece of equipment to make all their training possible. But
what if the student never learns the lesson being taught? What
if in three years, he personally destroys three cars out of carelessness,
three cars that the small amount of income that he brings into
the program can't even begin to make up for? What if once when
he totals an automobile it's because he's in a hurry because he's
breaking the rules to be out of the dormitory anyway?

Now imagine a situation where the program
director is sacrificing not only his own salary but also his family's
personal income (from other sources) in order to get dormitory
residents to Japan (again) despite their crashed cars. Isn't it
normal that guys after two and three years in the program would
start to "wear out their welcome" if they're not starting
to demonstrate a normal level of responsibility? Of course it
is. So, imagine the final few months of these two guys, two guys
who BKH made into stars (at least to the extent that publishing
their names and photographs on the website would do so). Imagine
the disaster that befell them when the program director finally
put his foot down and started making them take responsibility
for their own failures when those failures adversely affected
the group.
One guy was careless and crashed a car
into a telephone pole (in heavy rain at 10 mph). He expected that
his instructor would simply fix it again like he'd done the last
time and still take him to Japan because he was so "tough"
and such an "important member of the BKH team." Instead,
however, since more responsibility than that was expected of him
by the time he'd spent two years in the dormitory - and since
he'd started to wear out his welcome by failing to show that responsibility
-- his instructor gave him a box of tools, some dollars, and directions
to a junk yard, along with instructions to "go find a matching
bumper, grill and hood. Make sure you bring me a receipt. I'll
buy the radiator and the cooling fan, but once you get done with
your work for the day, every day this week if that's what it takes,
it's your responsibility to repair the car that you crashed. I'll
help you if you can't figure it out." That student repaired
the car of course . . . but because he was failing to learn the
lesson of responsibility, he was angry and he resented having
to work extra hours fixing the car even though it was he who'd
crashed it.
Now imagine that by his third year in
the dormitory, after having been taught FOR THREE YEARS how to
cook dormitory meals, and how to shop so that there's healthy
food in the dormitory pantry, and how important it is to communicate
with the program director when conditions in the kitchen start
to deteriorate for whatever reason . . . imagine when by his third
year the program director actually makes the mistake and TRUSTS
that after three years the senior dormitory member was actually
successfully taking care of this responsibility that had been
assigned to him. Imagine what would happen if instead the "responsible"
one in the dormitory was actually failing in his responsibility
altogether, and as a result, the quality of food in the dormitory
declined. The result of course is that guys that would otherwise
be on the path to becoming champions begin to fail for lack or
morale -- both these senior members AND their junior members in
the dormitory for whom they were supposed to have begun to be
responsible.
Finally, imagine that it's become this
same senior member's responsibility to call a short list of contractors
each evening to try to line up work for the 5 dormitory residents,
5 hours per day, the minimum that we'd decided they'd have to
do after their morning training, breakfast and power-stamina training
and before karate training each day, in order to get the entire
group to Japan for the All-Japan Tournament without the program
director having to assume the cost again on his own personal credit
cards. Now, there were some days when there was no work, not even
for one of five guys, even with the proper telephone calls made
simply because nobody needed any physical labor that day (there
was often not work in the rain, for example). Those days made
it all the more vital that the calls were indeed made to line
up the labor lest the group get even farther behind in their fundraising
goal. So what is the program director to do - the program director
who's still suffering from the debt on his personal credit cards
for taking a group that couldn't afford it to Japan the last time
- what is he to do when he sees that none of the dormitory population
is going to work one sunny day and he asks the senior member "did
you remember to make your calls yesterday," and the senior
member answers, "no, I forgot"? What is the program
director to do if gets that same answer for the 3rd time? What
about the 4th? Of course because that's the way it was for the
senior resident in his 1st year, and because he was failing to
learn the lesson of responsibility, he mistakenly believed, "it's
okay if we blow work off again today. Sensei will pay for Japan
anyway like he always does," somehow as if money grew on
trees.

Isn't it normal that under these circumstances
the "dormitory senior member" might start to wear out
his welcome? Of course it is. So the program director, finally
in that student's 3rd year, started putting his foot down and
making the 23-year-old "dormitory chief" take responsibility.
"You didn't work 5 hours today? Okay, no training for you
tomorrow. I'll call employers tonight and make sure that you personally
have 8 hours of work to do for the next two days to make up for
today that you spent sitting on your butt in the dormitory paying
with your Play Station." Of course the senior member who
was failing to learn the lesson of maturity resented the program
director's decision. Somebody punched a hole in a dormitory wall.
To make a long tragic story short, two
senior guys in the dormitory, who were getting so tough by that
time, were well into wearing out their welcome for their lack
of maturity, their lack of responsibility, and their lack of ability
to serve as role models for junior members in the dormitory. As
a result, their instructor started making them take responsibility,
and it was then that their anger and resentment for having to
do push-ups for not picking up their underwear peaked, and they
quit in a huff, thinking that if they left and brought their two
junior members with them by promising them brighter horizons at
the end of their rainbow, that they'd bring down BKH and not have
to be another in the long list of guys who failed to graduate.
It was reported later to the program
director that this senior member had complained to his juniors
as they "discussed" departure. "Sensei changed,"
he'd said, "he started to be interested in money." What
he failed to understand, however, was that "sensei"
had always been interested in money out of necessity cause it
was his responsibility to keep a roof over everyone's head and
get them to their competitions. He was right though that "sensei
changed": Sensei changed to where he started making a couple
young men who still hadn't grown up to take responsibility for
their actions for the first time in their lives, and because they
had become accustomed to having their hands held and being carried,
that was a change that they simply couldn't tolerate.

Ironically, they quit and Budo Karate
House got stronger. Their departure cleared the slate for guys
like current dormitory residents Jarrett McIntyre and Robert Schnoes,
to live and train without having to live in the dormitory with
its pair of dormitory tough guys who were failing to get with
the program all the way into to the end of the 2nd and 3rd years
here. And the new students are amazed. "One of them asks,
"you mean he only had six weeks left to graduate, and he
quit? What an idiot! I'd never quit if I'd already been through
940 days here!"
But then their teacher has to explain.
"No. They're not idiots. At heart they were not bad guys
and they're not exactly weak either. They were really tough, much
tougher than you guys right now can imagine. They were simply
not of a strong enough character to make it here when the going
got rough. Just like all the warnings posted on the website and
published in all the introductory materials all of you were sent
when you were applying, 'if you're not cut out to live up to the
program's strict expectations, you won't graduate' here either.
The purpose of the program is to create champions, but more importantly
it's to create a body of guys who can draw people to them BECAUSE
they're champions, and at the same time live a life that sets
a higher standard for living in a more correct way, so that others
- their juniors, their students - will aspire to live better lives
as well.

"The situation really
comes down to the philosophical question as to whether or not
a 'tiger can change his stripes'. Many people say, no. If a 'flawed'
person's stripes, as in this case, are the lack of maturity, responsibility
and ability to serve as role models that these guys entered the
program with, sure they can go through the motions for weeks at
a time and actually behave responsibly and maturely -- i.e. they
can hide their stripes -- but can they ever fundamentally alter
those stripes, or can they make them go away once and for all?
I know for a fact that in the case of these two guys they ARE
capable of fulfilling the 'growing up' expectations of the BKH
program. I know this because I've seen it. They've showed it to
me for periods of weeks on end. But then there in the end, the
going got rough for them when their instructor started making
them take responsibility -- and since no one had ever made them
take that kind of responsibility before -- their old stripes showed
though loud and clear. Nevertheless, the answer to the question,
I believe, is: Yes, a tiger can change his stripes in a fundamental
and permanent way IF he wants to change them bad enough. If he
makes changing his stripes a priority and remains committed to
that goal, he WILL be able to change them. These guys in the dormitory
there at the end, however, had given up. Their priorities had
changed. Instead of visualizing themselves in their fantasies
as champions, yes, but also of adults of a quality that other
people would respect because of the strengths of their character,
they visualized themselves to be the 'tough guy' champion who
throws his arms up in victory in the 'in your face' nature that's
so popular today. And in that vision, there's no room for being
scolded for failing to pick up your underwear, and for failing
to schedule the day's work that they resented having to do anyway."
It's not over for these
two guys who quit BKH last year in a huff. It's not too late.
One of them certainly, had a really serious issue with honesty,
or rather a lack there of. Consequently, it would be truly difficult
for us here at BKH to trust him in any kind of future involvement.
The other one? He's got a pretty good excuse: He was only 17 and
18 when he was here. He's got lots of time to grow up and realize
how he (and his 23-year-old roommate and role model) contributed
to ruining what could have been such a great outcome for himself.
At the age of 20 the BKH program director,
himself, FAILED after two years to complete the 3-year dormitory
program he was attending in Japan (see "Program Director"
link), but he failed for a lack of toughness. He left Japan heartbroken
because he loved his teacher and was 100% committed to his cause.
Yet he wasn't tough enough at that time (at the age of 20) to
endure the grueling physical hardship of a program that no foreigner
had ever graduated from. These two guys who left BKH were tough
enough. They were enduring the program and they were on the road
to becoming champions. Yet they left angry, full of resentment,
and hating their teacher here for not "letting them be."
So, it will be harder for them to bounce back and no body at BKH
expects them to, but the challenge is not insurmountable were
they to decide that that would be their path. They were on a growth
curve here at BKH that it's very likely they'll never find anywhere
except at BKH both in terms of deepening their character and their
athletic ability. And that's unfortunate because, at heart, those
young men were not "bad". They just missed out on some
learning that many of us get as teenagers. One was an orphan since
he was 14 and the other came to BKH from a series of programs
for juveniles with discipline problems. At BKH they were successful
in hiding those stripes fairly well for a lot of the time. But
in the end their resentment-driven departure made it very clear
that they hadn't managed to change those stripes in enough of
a fundamental way.

We at BKH (and of course it's BKH's
Program Director who's writing this essay) sincerely hope that
all of the guys who have attended BKH for significant amounts
of time and failed, will ultimately find their way, and we encourage
them to never forget that for those 500 or 700 days that they
were here at BKH, they were members of a family that would have
stood by them through anything, anything at all short of their
own failing to stand by that family themselves. And as for future
residents who may never get the pleasure of meeting those here
that don't make it? Hearing the stories both of those guys' successes
and, more importantly, the stories of their failures, will improve
their chances of emerging from BKH as the true champions that
all BKH students aspire to become.
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2. The
Nature of the Work You Will Do
to Help Support BKH Financially
The primary source of BKH's income is
money earned by labor performed by BKH residents. There is no
cost to residents for participating in the BKH program but if
you come here you WILL work to support the program while in the
program. All money that you earn while in the program will be
controlled by BKH (according to the legal guidelines of course
of a government-approved 501.c.3 nonprofit corporation), and BKH,
in turn, will then support you to the best of its ability.
The significant benefit that you will
receive here (and I dare say not find anywhere else) is that because
you will be living in a dormitory setting (sharing close quarters,
sharing expenses) you will have to devote much less of your time
and energy to work than you would have to do if you were on your
own, thus maximizing your time and energy for training. How many
young men in America today between the ages of 17 and 23 can work
an hourly-wage job for part-time hours and make enough money to
feed and house themselves, pay a qualified instructor to train
them at a professional level, and go to foreign countries 3 or
4 times per year to compete in tournaments? Not many, of course.

The "way" of the Budo Karate
House Dormitory is based on the way of dormitory life in the program
that BKH founder, Nathan Ligo, attended in Japan as a personal
student of Kyokushin Karate founder, Mas Oyama. In that sense,
dormitory life is like in a monastery. Of course there's no religious
training here (To each his own!), rather it's all about living
in such a way that you can devote your life to the discipline
of Budo Karate. BKH residents do not have spending money, they
do not come and go from the dormitory when they please, they do
not have girlfriends, and they don't order pizzas whenever they
want. They do have a roof over their heads, blankets to sleep
under, lots and lots of very healthy food to eat (assuming they
cook it properly and exercise some discipline when shopping),
books to read and study, a TV to watch when/if the day's work
is done, and lots and lots of training, traveling and competing
opportunities.
Let there be no doubt though that one
of the training experiences based on the Japanese model that BKH
employs to make you tough both physically and spiritually is to
show you how you can DO WITHOUT many of the creature comforts
that young American men tend to take for granted. There are no
bars on the dormitory (of course) so you can quit any time you
like, but otherwise for the most part when you're not training,
or working, or traveling for competitions, or grocery shopping,
etc. you'll be spending your time in the dormitory writing letters,
reading, sleeping, recovering from the day's training sessions,
etc. This simplistic way of life is both one of the reasons why
BKH fighters get so tough AND one of the reasons that you can
work part-time hours and do all the training that you do and still
compete in overseas competitions.

The nature of the work that BKH residents
do has evolved over time to meet the necessity of having to support
the program and its educational activities. Six years ago, a full
year before the first BKH resident arrived, the BKH founder took
a job as a security guard (night watchman) for the University
Public Safety Department here, and worked that job full-time for
that year in order to develop a relationship with that department's
management so that when his first students arrived he would be
able to recommend them for the job and get them jobs relatively
easily doing something that both made $10/hour (which is pretty
good of course for young men without working experience or training)
and provided for them something that sounded "cool"
so that potential applicants wouldn't be turned away by the notion
of having to work to support a program that had no track record.
With the exception of those that had
ANY criminal record, most of BKH's first 15 or so residents worked
as security guards for this department. By the time the first
few BKH residents arrived, BKH founder had been promoted to a
sub-management position, and he actually became one of the supervisors
on the job for his own students. As time passed and the dormitory
population increased to four (and as his income from his other
non-karate business increased) BKH founder eventually resigned
his position as Security Supervisor and his dormitory students
continued to work in that job.

In the beginning (for
the first 2 years of BKH's existence), we had no aspirations of
taking residents overseas, certainly not 4 times per year. Consequently,
the program was advertised as follows: Expect to work 40 hours/week
for your first month, 30 hours/week for the next 3 months, and
20/hours per week for the rest of your three years after that.
In this way, new students, who can't train at this intensity for
more than a couple hours per day anyway would work the most both
because they had the time, and to deter unscrupulous guys from
coming here with the intention of "mooching" off the
program for a few months and then quitting (guys often incorrectly
think they'll actually befit from doing just a few months here).
The senior guys, meanwhile, who have begun to prove their dedication,
and who are getting stronger and can train more than a few hours
per day, will be partially supported by the newcomers (those that
are most likely to quit), and the senior members, therefore, get
some benefit by having lasted in the program the longest.
This worked for 18 months or so until
more and more BKH residents got jobs as security guards and more
and more of them started screwing up on the job. Imagine how embarrassing
it was for the program director (an ex-security supervisor) when
one of his ex coworkers would call him to report that another
one of his BKH residential students got caught the night before,
sound asleep, curled up like a dog in the floor of the guard booth
where his job description required that he be keeping a vigilant
watch on the property he was guarding. And then there was the
time that one BKH resident quit the program and chose to use his
shift on the job as the "window of opportunity" by which
he would run away in the night, abandoning his shift and leaving
his site unguarded. There were a number of incidents like this
- because remember that the average BKH applicant isn't YET the
winner that he aspires someday to become. The final straw was
when some officers in the University Police Department noticed
that candy bars where getting stolen from a save-the-children
charity jar (in which one was supposed to drop a dollar in the
box when tanking a candy bar), so they got with the department's
detectives and positioned a microchip video camera in the room
to see who the guilty party was. Well, unfortunately, there were
two guilty parties, they both got caught on tape, and they were
both BKH residents, one of them this most recent BKH "senior-member"
who used to be so prominently displayed on the website.

Of course they were fired, and as is
an unfortunate pattern for the BKH director HE lost the credibility
because HE was the one who'd recommended his students for the
job and it reached a point where he could no longer, with a clear
conscience, recommend future students for the same job. As is
an unfortunate normal pattern around here, weak guys who fail
tend to ruin opportunities for future residents who've done nothing
wrong. Interestingly, it was about at that same time that the
notion of international travel for competitions and seminars presented
itself as we formalized our connection with the Japan-based nonprofit
organization, Kyokushinkan.
Six weeks later there was a training
seminar in South Africa (see photograph below) that we had been
invited to. Of course of all the places where we travel, South
Africa is about the furthest away, and therefore the most expensive
to buy a plane ticket for. There were 3 residents in the dormitory
at that time and the program director asked them for a rare silent
vote. "We have an opportunity to participate in a training
seminar in South Africa," he explained, "but there's
no money in the coffers right now to be able to afford it. I think
it's possible that we could raise that much money between now
and then but it'll mean dropping our evening training for a little
while and working our fingers to the bone doing manual labor,
all day every day if necessary, between now and then to be able
to afford it."
"If you want to make that life
change for the next six weeks and go to South Africa," he
continued, "I want to hear it from you." He went on
to ask all three residents to put one hand behind their backs
and make a fist if they wanted to work that hard in order to go,
and to leave their hands open if they preferred to not work so
hard and continue as we had been. Of course all three guys made
tight fists behind their backs and that was the start of manual
labor as the primary "bread and butter" of the BKH program.
The guys worked - in that case side by side with their instructor
- and their first job was to clear an acre of fallen timber. A
developer had a piece of property where a tornado had touched
down and knocked down 100 pine trees. The developer offered BKH
$1500 to clear the lot and estimated that it would take at least
7 days. BKH director and the dormitory's oldest member went to
work with chain saws while the other guys dragged logs, the BKH
director motivated the guys to treat the labor like training and
they stunned the developer by clearing the lot in less than 4
days.

Once in Cape Town, BKH was invited for
the first time to send fighters to the All-Japan Weight Category
Tournament several months later in Japan, and since the door had
been open to contractors who needed unskilled manual labor and
would pay $10/hour for it, and since the BKH residents at the
time all wanted to fight in Japan, the three of them came back
from Africa and went right on working, replacing the morning to
night work with 'short and sweet' 5-hour work days from 10 am
to 3 PM so as to be able to still maximize their time for training.
In the morning there was "morning training" at 7:00
(running, push-ups, jumping squats, etc.), then breakfast, then
"power-stamina" training, before ideally resting for
at least a half-hour before setting off for a 5 hour work day,
digging ditches, moving lumber, cleaning up on construction sites,
even painting. Finished by 4 or 5 in the afternoon, they could
then come home to eat and rest for another half-hour or so before
Karate training at or around 6:00.
Of course this is EXTREMELY exhausting,
and the guys who could endure it got EXTREMELY tough because of
it. BKH application materials and the website was changed to reflect
the change from working as security guards to "doing mostly
manual labor," and since then the most recent 25 or so guys
have been admitted to the program with the expectation of 5-hour
work days, Monday through Saturday (30 hours/week total except
unfortunately there are frequent days when there's no work). This
worked quite well for quite a while, especially because it helped
us weed-out very quickly guys who came here who weren't going
to be tough or dedicated enough. Of the 25, many quit not because
the work was too hard or because the training was too hard, but
rather of course because the two together is extremely hard. In
that sense, BKH is about the survival of the fittest, which is
why those that succeed here for any amount of time get so strong,
i.e. physically strong at least with the opportunity to becoming
spiritually strong as well depending on what they're made of to
begin with.

Here's where the end part of this essay
starts to merge with the end of the previous one, because this
5 hours of manual labor per day to support BKH didn't always work
as well as it did there for awhile. Of course even the strongest
of guys can get burned out maintaining this routine and that's
normal. However, of course, BKH is not about making "normal"
guys. Obviously, if you read the above essay on "Maturity",
you'll be able to identify the fact that those guys who were failing
there at the end of last year where exhibiting all the symptoms
of getting "burned out" with such an amazingly difficult
routine. And it's a fine line that the BKH program director has
had no choice but to try to walk from the beginning:
"Don't take the boys to Japan this
year and some will quit because dormitory life is so hard AND
the average BKH resident isn't historically of a strong enough
character to continue such a hard lifestyle without frequent,
substantial rewards such as the excitement and honor of fighting
in Japan in one of the world's strongest tournaments. Take them
to Japan this year, on the other hand, and guys will be motivated
to continue but the only way to afford it is to work them half
to death (figuratively speaking of course), and then put the remaining
quarter of the cost on your own credit card, AGAIN."
In the end of last years collapse, the
guys were having trouble scheduling work for themselves, of course,
because they were getting to the work sites and doing crappy work.
Their days got shorter (4 hours with all the breaks instead of
the 5 they were getting paid for) and the quality of the work
diminished. If 5 guys go to a construction site and a contractor
pays the five of them $50/hour for 5 hours, he expects to get
$250 worth of work done. Of course he does! And to the credit
of this class of BKH resident, MUCH of the time, these contractors
LOVED to have BKH residents working for them because, MUCH of
the time, these guys worked twice as hard as the average day laborer.
Those days that they treated the work like training, certainly,
they did 10 hours worth average day labor in 5 hours. But the
bottom line of all of this that you need to pay very close attention
to if you're considering applying to BKH is that even those guys
that were so strong (as to win all the competitions you've seen
on the website) weren't quite strong enough to endure BKH's 3
years of training because "strong enough" means both
physically AND in terms of character development.
There's no question that it will be
very hard but if you come to resent the "hand that feeds
you" because your life is hard, even though that "hand
that feeds you" is feeding you at a perpetual loss (i.e.
no profit to date for BKH, no salary to date paid its director),
the bottom line is that YOU'LL BE SHOWING YOURSELF TO BE NOT STRONG
ENOUGH TO COMPLETE THE PROGRAM because THIS IS WHAT THE PROGRAM
IS. It's not what you wish it was. It's what it is. It is extremely
hard, and it has been advertised from the beginning as such. These
young guys that read the advertisement and decide immediately
that their prayers have been answered while at the same time failing
to believe what's written on the page in front of them to read
are destined to fail here. We at BKH are not about making mediocre
fighters and instructors of Budo Karate; we're about making champions
and the country's best instructors. We could sell out on that
goal, and brush people through who weren't developing both their
bodies and their characters, but we don't. This has been outlined
in our literature very clearly from the beginning.
Chapter three, of this story of labor
performed by BKH residents to support the program has only just
begun. Jarrett McIntyre and Robert Schnoes are both currently
working installing satellite dishes at people's homes. It's less
physically demanding than the the manual labor that the earlier
class did, but it's much more technologically demanding and it
requires a much higher degree of personal responsibility. They
have to do a lot of driving and essentially manage themselves
once on the job. For the time being it's working well and they
make a lot more than $10/hour which, in the long run, ought to
make things easier for everyone. They are both reminded frequently
that if times get rough, or if this job doesn't work out for whatever
reason, there's always the type of manual labor that other residents
have done in the past and they are reminded to prepare themselves
in case that option becomes a necessity for any reason.
(Residents with criminal records, and
poor driving records will not be able to do this kind of work
even if it is available. Furthermore, no resident will be allowed
to do this kind of work who can demonstrate to the program director
that they're mature enough to handle it both in terms of safety
and professionalism. All BKH applicants, therefore, should expect
that a part of their routine here in the BKH program for three
years will be MANUAL LABOR.)
We sincerely hope, by the way, that
senior students by the time they reach their 3rd year will not
have to work at all. We'd much rather have them teaching classes
in the dojo (or future dojos) but whether or not that can ever
become a reality depends both on the growth of the program (and
dojo student body) and also on the individual's personal development.
One of the reasons why a couple of these guys who quit were likely
angry, was because their instructor often told them that if they
played their cards right they ought to be able to be instructors
by the time they were in their 3rd years rather than manual laborers.
What they failed to understand, however, was the "if you
play your cards right" part of that concept. Reaching that
point, means developing a certain level of achievement in the
dormitory population in terms of growth and maturity. The dormitory's
growth, of course, depends on the personal growth of its senior
members and since those senior members ultimately failed to grow
up in the way that they needed to, the dormitory population remained
small and of a quality that could not have supported that kind
of 3rd year future for them. If you're succeeding here, therefore,
we encourage you to HOPE that by the time you're in your 3rd year
you can replace most of your time spent working with time spent
training and teaching junior members. However the only way to
be as sure as possible of your chances of success here is to EXPECT
that you will spend the entirety of the program doing the minimum
amount of work necessary in order to maximize your time and energy
for training.
Bottom line: The primary element to
understand for future applicants is that working the equivalent
of 5 hours per day, 6 days per week (sometimes more, often less)
is a requirement of participation in the program. It's a vital
part, of course, of any young man's education towards responsibility,
but more than that it's also a necessity in terms of putting food
on the table and quality competitions at our fingertips. Money
does NOT grow on trees in the BKH dormitory, and you would be
well cautioned to understand these two facts very well: 1. The
work that you will do here at BKH is very, very hard work in conjunction
with the training. 2. The BKH program director has taken money
out of his own pocket time and time again in order to make up
the difference when BKH residents' earnings fail to meet the mark,
and you would be smart therefore to think of him as a SPONSOR
as much of as a teacher. You will work very hard, yes, but the
amount of work that BKH residents have done to date has never
been enough to pay for the benefits they receive. If you come
here and start taking the BKH director's sponsorship for granted
-- like this recent failed class ultimately did -- then you will
wear out your welcome here and BKH maintains the right to withdraw
that sponsorship from you at any time. No matter how hard you
work, if you're not growing up and "getting with the program",
you will be asked to leave.
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