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This
Program description is for Residential Program only. Anyone is wecome
at Ligo Dojo anytime.
The BKH dormitory program will
be closed FOR TWO YEARS. After producing one graduate out of 70 to attempt
the program during a 10-year period, we have decided, temporarily, to
concentrate our efforts on the dojo population. Interestingly, the residential
program was designed to create assistant instructors, but it turns out
that it's been the general population of the dojo that's producing the
more successful candidates for assistant instructor. We WILL re-open this
program after a two-year break, so if you're interested in participating,
please keep checking online, and/or even let us know you're intereted,
because things might change anytime. The program, as based on the one
Sensei Ligo attended in Japan, is designed to accept high quality applicants
and make them into high quality fighters and instructors. Unfortunatly,
thus far, the number of high quality applicants this program has attracted
pales in comparison to the many who were desperately lost and therefore
willing even to take advantage for a free place to live. From 70 to attempt
the program for example, none were as disrepecting of the program as the
last three to come and go. Two of these came out of the homeless shelter,
two (different) of the three were very capable physically, but all three
lacked the character to treat even the facilty in which they lived, let
alone their word of honor, with any respect.
Two interested students who contacted
us in the past month, if you talk with me (Nathan Ligo) I might be able
to help situation you here in town so that you can train at Ligo Dojo.
None of that assistance, however, will be financial. Come here to live
though, and we'd be delighted to have you in the dojo.
Still interested? Check back
in a few years.
Life in the BKH Dormitory
One of the challenges we face when
trying to recruit BKH dormitory residents who can succeed is trying to
convince potential applicants that the program IS EXACTLY AS WE DESCRIBE
IT TO BE in all of this literature that we provide (website and application
materials). It's quite frankly amazing how many applicants choose not
to believe what we write and instead choose to believe that the program
will be exactly what their fantasy leads them to WISH it would be when
the first see the advertisement. It's as if they see the ad, get all excited
about their dreams coming true due to the fantasies their imaginations
conjure up upon seeing the ad, and then it's as if the lure to remain
in that fantasy world is so strong that they don't even read what's written
on the page in front of them. If you're interested in the program DO YOURSELF
A FAVOR!!! READ ALL THE MATERIAL IN THE WEBSITE AND IN THE APPLICATION
MATERIALS SO THERE WON'T BE ANY SURPRISES!!!

Below please find two essays that we've written
in an attempt to give you deeper insight into the reality of the program
so you'll be less likely to be surprised if you wind up becoming one of
the chosen few that make it here. We will add other essays as we determine
situations which we think applicants ought to be better informed about.
Please read the following essays:
1. Maturity, Responsibility, and Character
2. The Nature of the Work You Will
Do to Help Support BKH Financially
1. Maturity, Responsibility,
and Character
(written in 2005 about a class now long gone)
Although it may cease to sound like an
advertisement for the BKH program and start to sound more like
a warning as to why you should think twice before applying, please
consider the circumstances that lead up to the downfall of one
recent class of BKH residents. Keep in mind that this dismal description
is not a description of how it's supposed to be at BKH. It's just
a description of how bad it can get if residents are failing to
"get with the program."

As you progress here, more and more will
be expected of you in terms of responsibility, maturity and leadership.
Your instructor will teach you many things that combine to make
up a way of life (karate dormitory life based on the Japanese
model) that will provide every possible advantage to you in terms
of your chances of becoming strong, both physically, and in terms
of character. By the time you're in your second year here, it
will be expected of you that you are able to do some of the teaching
yourselves of junior dormitory members. You will teach them the
basic lessons that you were taught in the beginning so that your
instructor can concentrate on teaching you more advanced ones.
The primary way by which you will be expected to teach is by setting
the correct example.
Take for an example learning how to clean
up after your self, a lesson that many of us take for granted.
In order to become strong a group of guys living together, sharing
bedrooms, a kitchen, a bathroom and a laundry machine, etc., must
learn how to keep their surroundings neat. If they don't, if smelly
underwear gets left scattered around on the floor and dirty dishes
in the sink start to smell bad, and if you live in that kind of
environment day after day, it will become very difficult to live
with any degree of self-respect. And you can't expect to become
strong, of course, without self-respect. Many of you who read
this (unless you're parents of adolescents) will be amazed, but
many of these guys who apply to the BKH program aspiring to be
fighters and instructors dream of doing so in order to reshape
lives that aren't going very well and consequently they're often
not very good at taking care of themselves. There are very strict
rules in the dormitory concerning cleanliness and neatness and
if you arrive here and lack the discipline to follow those rules,
you will be compelled to do so. If you're told twice not to leave
dirty dishes or underwear around it's very likely that you'll
find yourself doing some kind of physical exercise that you'd
rather not be doing just then. "Don't clean up after yourself,
okay, do 100 pushups," something like that. That's one reason
why these undisciplined types tend to get so tough: If you can't
figure out how to pick up after yourself for three years, you
wind up doing an awful lot of push-ups.

Given that some new residents will already
possess a healthy level of personal neatness and won't have to
learn this type of lesson, if you do have to learn it, you will
be expected to figure out ultimately that the reason why you have
to pick up after yourself is BECAUSE IT'S A STRONGER WAY TO LIVE.
Unfortunately, however, the most advanced level of understanding
that this most recent group of senior dormitory members to fail
here mustered was that the reason why it was important to clean
up after themselves was because they were afraid of getting scolded
and having to do 100 pushups.
The age-old expression goes, "you
can take a horse to water, but you can't make him drink."
These last two "senior members of the dormitory"came
here from a history of adolescent issues that included violence
and lack of discipline at home and troubles with the law as adolescents
that resulted from a lack of appreciation for authority. Consequently,
by the time they reached their 2nd and 3rd years here and were
still getting scolded, and were still doing push-ups, instead
of setting an example for their junior members of how they'd learned
to live responsibly, instead of "getting with the program"
and learning the lesson as you or I might, they just got rebellious
and angry about the fact that they were getting so tough (winning
competitions) but were still getting scolded for not picking up
their underwear.
We tend to publish on the BKH website our
members' accomplishments in terms of tournament victories and
tend NOT to describe how they sometimes (as in the case of these
two guys) are failing in terms of other lessons vital to making
it successfully through the program. They themselves read the
website and think, "I'm starting to be somebody . . . I'm
a champion." As a result their self-opinion becomes elevated
and if they are, for whatever reason, unable to learn some of
the basic lessons of growing up - like learning how to clean up
after themselves for example - they start to resent it all the
more when they're criticized like young teenagers for they way
they're "failing to live like champions."
Now imagine this type of scenario and apply
it to more important issues than learning to clean up after yourself.
Imagine that after two or three years here you start to become
responsible for driving a BKH Dormitory automobile so that you
and your junior roommates can get to and from work and training
and grocery shopping etc. So, the first year is rough, and a car
or two gets destroyed, and the program director spends hours and
hours instructing and - sometime scolding - and trying to make
the dormitory's senior members understand how important it is
to check the oil level in the engine, and how important it is
to drive safely (rather than like a hot rod), because of course
the entire "unit" (i.e. BKH) is dependent on that piece
of equipment to make all their training possible. But what if
the student never learns the lesson being taught? What if in three
years, he personally destroys three cars out of carelessness,
three cars that the small amount of income that he brings into
the program can't even begin to make up for? What if once when
he totals an automobile it's because he's in a hurry because he's
breaking the rules to be out of the dormitory anyway?

Now imagine a situation where the program
director is sacrificing not only his own salary but also his family's
personal income (from other sources) in order to get dormitory
residents to Japan (again) despite their crashed cars. Isn't it
normal that guys after two and three years in the program would
start to "wear out their welcome" if they're not starting
to demonstrate a normal level of responsibility? Of course it
is. So, imagine the final few months of these two guys, two guys
who BKH made into stars (at least to the extent that publishing
their names and photographs on the website would do so). Imagine
the disaster that befell them when the program director finally
put his foot down and started making them take responsibility
for their own failures when those failures adversely affected
the group.
One guy was careless and crashed a car
into a telephone pole (in heavy rain at 10 mph). He expected that
his instructor would simply fix it again like he'd done the last
time and still take him to Japan because he was so "tough"
and such an "important member of the BKH team." Instead,
however, since more responsibility than that was expected of him
by the time he'd spent two years in the dormitory - and since
he'd started to wear out his welcome by failing to show that responsibility
-- his instructor gave him a box of tools, some dollars, and directions
to a junk yard, along with instructions to "go find a matching
bumper, grill and hood. Make sure you bring me a receipt. I'll
buy the radiator and the cooling fan, but once you get done with
your work for the day, every day this week if that's what it takes,
it's your responsibility to repair the car that you crashed. I'll
help you if you can't figure it out." That student repaired
the car of course . . . but because he was failing to learn the
lesson of responsibility, he was angry and he resented having
to work extra hours fixing the car even though it was he who'd
crashed it.
Now imagine that by his third year in the
dormitory, after having been taught FOR THREE YEARS how to cook
dormitory meals, and how to shop so that there's healthy food
in the dormitory pantry, and how important it is to communicate
with the program director when conditions in the kitchen start
to deteriorate for whatever reason . . . imagine when by his third
year the program director actually makes the mistake and TRUSTS
that after three years the senior dormitory member was actually
successfully taking care of this responsibility that had been
assigned to him. Imagine what would happen if instead the "responsible"
one in the dormitory was actually failing in his responsibility
altogether, and as a result, the quality of food in the dormitory
declined. The result of course is that guys that would otherwise
be on the path to becoming champions begin to fail for lack or
morale -- both these senior members AND their junior members in
the dormitory for whom they were supposed to have begun to be
responsible.
Finally, imagine that it's become this
same senior member's responsibility to call a short list of contractors
each evening to try to line up work for the 5 dormitory residents,
5 hours per day, the minimum that we'd decided they'd have to
do after their morning training, breakfast and power-stamina training
and before karate training each day, in order to get the entire
group to Japan for the All-Japan Tournament without the program
director having to assume the cost again on his own personal credit
cards. Now, there were some days when there was no work, not even
for one of five guys, even with the proper telephone calls made
simply because nobody needed any physical labor that day (there
was often not work in the rain, for example). Those days made
it all the more vital that the calls were indeed made to line
up the labor lest the group get even farther behind in their fundraising
goal. So what is the program director to do - the program director
who's still suffering from the debt on his personal credit cards
for taking a group that couldn't afford it to Japan the last time
- what is he to do when he sees that none of the dormitory population
is going to work one sunny day and he asks the senior member "did
you remember to make your calls yesterday," and the senior
member answers, "no, I forgot"? What is the program
director to do if gets that same answer for the 3rd time? What
about the 4th? Of course because that's the way it was for the
senior resident in his 1st year, and because he was failing to
learn the lesson of responsibility, he mistakenly believed, "it's
okay if we blow work off again today. Sensei will pay for Japan
anyway like he always does," somehow as if money grew on
trees.

Isn't it normal that under these circumstances
the "dormitory senior member" might start to wear out
his welcome? Of course it is. So the program director, finally
in that student's 3rd year, started putting his foot down and
making the 23-year-old "dormitory chief" take responsibility.
"You didn't work 5 hours today? Okay, no training for you
tomorrow. I'll call employers tonight and make sure that you personally
have 8 hours of work to do for the next two days to make up for
today that you spent sitting on your butt in the dormitory paying
with your Play Station." Of course the senior member who
was failing to learn the lesson of maturity resented the program
director's decision. Somebody punched a hole in a dormitory wall.
To make a long tragic story short, two
senior guys in the dormitory, who were getting so tough by that
time, were well into wearing out their welcome for their lack
of maturity, their lack of responsibility, and their lack of ability
to serve as role models for junior members in the dormitory. As
a result, their instructor started making them take responsibility,
and it was then that their anger and resentment for having to
do push-ups for not picking up their underwear peaked, and they
quit in a huff, thinking that if they left and brought their two
junior members with them by promising them brighter horizons at
the end of their rainbow, that they'd bring down BKH and not have
to be another in the long list of guys who failed to graduate.
It was reported later to the program director
that this senior member had complained to his juniors as they
"discussed" departure. "Sensei changed," he'd
said, "he started to be interested in money." What he
failed to understand, however, was that "sensei" had
always been interested in money out of necessity cause it was
his responsibility to keep a roof over everyone's head and get
them to their competitions. He was right though that "sensei
changed": Sensei changed to where he started making a couple
young men who still hadn't grown up to take responsibility for
their actions for the first time in their lives, and because they
had become accustomed to having their hands held and being carried,
that was a change that they simply couldn't tolerate.

Ironically, they quit and Budo Karate House
got stronger. Their departure cleared the slate for guys like
current dormitory residents Jarrett McIntyre and Robert Schnoes,
to live and train without having to live in the dormitory with
its pair of dormitory tough guys who were failing to get with
the program all the way into to the end of the 2nd and 3rd years
here. And the new students are amazed. "One of them asks,
"you mean he only had six weeks left to graduate, and he
quit? What an idiot! I'd never quit if I'd already been through
940 days here!"
But then their teacher has to explain.
"No. They're not idiots. At heart they were not bad guys
and they're not exactly weak either. They were really tough, much
tougher than you guys right now can imagine. They were simply
not of a strong enough character to make it here when the going
got rough. Just like all the warnings posted on the website and
published in all the introductory materials all of you were sent
when you were applying, 'if you're not cut out to live up to the
program's strict expectations, you won't graduate' here either.
The purpose of the program is to create champions, but more importantly
it's to create a body of guys who can draw people to them BECAUSE
they're champions, and at the same time live a life that sets
a higher standard for living in a more correct way, so that others
- their juniors, their students - will aspire to live better lives
as well.

"The situation really
comes down to the philosophical question as to whether or not
a 'tiger can change his stripes'. Many people say, no. If a 'flawed'
person's stripes, as in this case, are the lack of maturity, responsibility
and ability to serve as role models that these guys entered the
program with, sure they can go through the motions for weeks at
a time and actually behave responsibly and maturely -- i.e. they
can hide their stripes -- but can they ever fundamentally alter
those stripes, or can they make them go away once and for all?
I know for a fact that in the case of these two guys they ARE
capable of fulfilling the 'growing up' expectations of the BKH
program. I know this because I've seen it. They've showed it to
me for periods of weeks on end. But then there in the end, the
going got rough for them when their instructor started making
them take responsibility -- and since no one had ever made them
take that kind of responsibility before -- their old stripes showed
though loud and clear. Nevertheless, the answer to the question,
I believe, is: Yes, a tiger can change his stripes in a fundamental
and permanent way IF he wants to change them bad enough. If he
makes changing his stripes a priority and remains committed to
that goal, he WILL be able to change them. These guys in the dormitory
there at the end, however, had given up. Their priorities had
changed. Instead of visualizing themselves in their fantasies
as champions, yes, but also of adults of a quality that other
people would respect because of the strengths of their character,
they visualized themselves to be the 'tough guy' champion who
throws his arms up in victory in the 'in your face' nature that's
so popular today. And in that vision, there's no room for being
scolded for failing to pick up your underwear, and for failing
to schedule the day's work that they resented having to do anyway."
It's not over for these
two guys who quit BKH last year in a huff. It's not too late.
One of them certainly, had a really serious issue with honesty,
or rather a lack there of. Consequently, it would be truly difficult
for us here at BKH to trust him in any kind of future involvement.
The other one? He's got a pretty good excuse: He was only 17 and
18 when he was here. He's got lots of time to grow up and realize
how he (and his 23-year-old roommate and role model) contributed
to ruining what could have been such a great outcome for himself.
At the age of 20 the BKH program director,
himself, FAILED after two years to complete the 3-year dormitory
program he was attending in Japan (see "Program Director"
link), but he failed for a lack of toughness. He left Japan heartbroken
because he loved his teacher and was 100% committed to his cause.
Yet he wasn't tough enough at that time (at the age of 20) to
endure the grueling physical hardship of a program that no foreigner
had ever graduated from. These two guys who left BKH were tough
enough. They were enduring the program and they were on the road
to becoming champions. Yet they left angry, full of resentment,
and hating their teacher here for not "letting them be."
So, it will be harder for them to bounce back and no body at BKH
expects them to, but the challenge is not insurmountable were
they to decide that that would be their path. They were on a growth
curve here at BKH that it's very likely they'll never find anywhere
except at BKH both in terms of deepening their character and their
athletic ability. And that's unfortunate because, at heart, those
young men were not "bad". They just missed out on some
learning that many of us get as teenagers. One was an orphan since
he was 14 and the other came to BKH from a series of programs
for juveniles with discipline problems. At BKH they were successful
in hiding those stripes fairly well for a lot of the time. But
in the end their resentment-driven departure made it very clear
that they hadn't managed to change those stripes in enough of
a fundamental way.

We at BKH (and of course it's BKH's Program
Director who's writing this essay) sincerely hope that all of
the guys who have attended BKH for significant amounts of time
and failed, will ultimately find their way, and we encourage them
to never forget that for those 500 or 700 days that they were
here at BKH, they were members of a family that would have stood
by them through anything, anything at all short of their own failing
to stand by that family themselves. And as for future residents
who may never get the pleasure of meeting those here that don't
make it? Hearing the stories both of those guys' successes and,
more importantly, the stories of their failures, will improve
their chances of emerging from BKH as the true champions that
all BKH students aspire to become.
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2. The Nature
of the Work You Will Do
to Help Support BKH Financially
The primary source of BKH's
income is money earned by labor performed by BKH residents. There
is no cost to residents for participating in the BKH program but
if you come here you WILL work to support the program while in
the program. All money that you earn while in the program will
be controlled by BKH (according to the legal guidelines of course
of a government-approved 501.c.3 nonprofit corporation), and BKH,
in turn, will then support you to the best of its ability.
The significant benefit that you will receive
here (and I dare say not find anywhere else) is that because you
will be living in a dormitory setting (sharing close quarters,
sharing expenses) you will have to devote much less of your time
and energy to work than you would have to do if you were on your
own, thus maximizing your time and energy for training. How many
young men in America today between the ages of 17 and 23 can work
an hourly-wage job for part-time hours and make enough money to
feed and house themselves, pay a qualified instructor to train
them at a professional level, and go to foreign countries 3 or
4 times per year to compete in tournaments? Not many, of course.

The "way" of the Budo Karate
House Dormitory is based on the way of dormitory life in the program
that BKH founder, Nathan Ligo, attended in Japan as a personal
student of Kyokushin Karate founder, Mas Oyama. In that sense,
dormitory life is like in a monastery. Of course there's no religious
training here (To each his own!), rather it's all about living
in such a way that you can devote your life to the discipline
of Budo Karate. BKH residents do not have spending money, they
do not come and go from the dormitory when they please, they do
not have girlfriends, and they don't order pizzas whenever they
want. They do have a roof over their heads, blankets to sleep
under, lots and lots of very healthy food to eat (assuming they
cook it properly and exercise some discipline when shopping),
books to read and study, a TV to watch when/if the day's work
is done, and lots and lots of training, traveling and competing
opportunities.
Let there be no doubt though that one of
the training experiences based on the Japanese model that BKH
employs to make you tough both physically and spiritually is to
show you how you can DO WITHOUT many of the creature comforts
that young American men tend to take for granted. There are no
bars on the dormitory (of course) so you can quit any time you
like, but otherwise for the most part when you're not training,
or working, or traveling for competitions, or grocery shopping,
etc. you'll be spending your time in the dormitory writing letters,
reading, sleeping, recovering from the day's training sessions,
etc. This simplistic way of life is both one of the reasons why
BKH fighters get so tough AND one of the reasons that you can
work part-time hours and do all the training that you do and still
compete in overseas competitions.

The nature of the work that BKH residents
do has evolved over time to meet the necessity of having to support
the program and its educational activities. Six years ago, a full
year before the first BKH resident arrived, the BKH founder took
a job as a security guard (night watchman) for the University
Public Safety Department here, and worked that job full-time for
that year in order to develop a relationship with that department's
management so that when his first students arrived he would be
able to recommend them for the job and get them jobs relatively
easily doing something that both made $10/hour (which is pretty
good of course for young men without working experience or training)
and provided for them something that sounded "cool"
so that potential applicants wouldn't be turned away by the notion
of having to work to support a program that had no track record.
With the exception of those that had ANY
criminal record, most of BKH's first 15 or so residents worked
as security guards for this department. By the time the first
few BKH residents arrived, BKH founder had been promoted to a
sub-management position, and he actually became one of the supervisors
on the job for his own students. As time passed and the dormitory
population increased to four (and as his income from his other
non-karate business increased) BKH founder eventually resigned
his position as Security Supervisor and his dormitory students
continued to work in that job.

In the beginning (for the
first 2 years of BKH's existence), we had no aspirations of taking
residents overseas, certainly not 4 times per year. Consequently,
the program was advertised as follows: Expect to work 40 hours/week
for your first month, 30 hours/week for the next 3 months, and
20/hours per week for the rest of your three years after that.
In this way, new students, who can't train at this intensity for
more than a couple hours per day anyway would work the most both
because they had the time, and to deter unscrupulous guys from
coming here with the intention of "mooching" off the
program for a few months and then quitting (guys often incorrectly
think they'll actually befit from doing just a few months here).
The senior guys, meanwhile, who have begun to prove their dedication,
and who are getting stronger and can train more than a few hours
per day, will be partially supported by the newcomers (those that
are most likely to quit), and the senior members, therefore, get
some benefit by having lasted in the program the longest.
This worked for 18 months or so until more
and more BKH residents got jobs as security guards and more and
more of them started screwing up on the job. Imagine how embarrassing
it was for the program director (an ex-security supervisor) when
one of his ex coworkers would call him to report that another
one of his BKH residential students got caught the night before,
sound asleep, curled up like a dog in the floor of the guard booth
where his job description required that he be keeping a vigilant
watch on the property he was guarding. And then there was the
time that one BKH resident quit the program and chose to use his
shift on the job as the "window of opportunity" by which
he would run away in the night, abandoning his shift and leaving
his site unguarded. There were a number of incidents like this
- because remember that the average BKH applicant isn't YET the
winner that he aspires someday to become. The final straw was
when some officers in the University Police Department noticed
that candy bars where getting stolen from a save-the-children
charity jar (in which one was supposed to drop a dollar in the
box when tanking a candy bar), so they got with the department's
detectives and positioned a microchip video camera in the room
to see who the guilty party was. Well, unfortunately, there were
two guilty parties, they both got caught on tape, and they were
both BKH residents, one of them this most recent BKH "senior-member"
who used to be so prominently displayed on the website.

Of course they were fired, and as is an
unfortunate pattern for the BKH director HE lost the credibility
because HE was the one who'd recommended his students for the
job and it reached a point where he could no longer, with a clear
conscience, recommend future students for the same job. As is
an unfortunate normal pattern around here, weak guys who fail
tend to ruin opportunities for future residents who've done nothing
wrong. Interestingly, it was about at that same time that the
notion of international travel for competitions and seminars presented
itself as we formalized our connection with the Japan-based nonprofit
organization, Kyokushinkan.
Six weeks later there was a training seminar
in South Africa (see photograph below) that we had been invited
to. Of course of all the places where we travel, South Africa
is about the furthest away, and therefore the most expensive to
buy a plane ticket for. There were 3 residents in the dormitory
at that time and the program director asked them for a rare silent
vote. "We have an opportunity to participate in a training
seminar in South Africa," he explained, "but there's
no money in the coffers right now to be able to afford it. I think
it's possible that we could raise that much money between now
and then but it'll mean dropping our evening training for a little
while and working our fingers to the bone doing manual labor,
all day every day if necessary, between now and then to be able
to afford it."
"If you want to make that life change
for the next six weeks and go to South Africa," he continued,
"I want to hear it from you." He went on to ask all
three residents to put one hand behind their backs and make a
fist if they wanted to work that hard in order to go, and to leave
their hands open if they preferred to not work so hard and continue
as we had been. Of course all three guys made tight fists behind
their backs and that was the start of manual labor as the primary
"bread and butter" of the BKH program. The guys worked
- in that case side by side with their instructor - and their
first job was to clear an acre of fallen timber. A developer had
a piece of property where a tornado had touched down and knocked
down 100 pine trees. The developer offered BKH $1500 to clear
the lot and estimated that it would take at least 7 days. BKH
director and the dormitory's oldest member went to work with chain
saws while the other guys dragged logs, the BKH director motivated
the guys to treat the labor like training and they stunned the
developer by clearing the lot in less than 4 days.

Once in Cape Town, BKH was invited for
the first time to send fighters to the All-Japan Weight Category
Tournament several months later in Japan, and since the door had
been open to contractors who needed unskilled manual labor and
would pay $10/hour for it, and since the BKH residents at the
time all wanted to fight in Japan, the three of them came back
from Africa and went right on working, replacing the morning to
night work with 'short and sweet' 5-hour work days from 10 am
to 3 PM so as to be able to still maximize their time for training.
In the morning there was "morning training" at 7:00
(running, push-ups, jumping squats, etc.), then breakfast, then
"power-stamina" training, before ideally resting for
at least a half-hour before setting off for a 5 hour work day,
digging ditches, moving lumber, cleaning up on construction sites,
even painting. Finished by 4 or 5 in the afternoon, they could
then come home to eat and rest for another half-hour or so before
Karate training at or around 6:00.
Of course this is EXTREMELY exhausting,
and the guys who could endure it got EXTREMELY tough because of
it. BKH application materials and the website was changed to reflect
the change from working as security guards to "doing mostly
manual labor," and since then the most recent 25 or so guys
have been admitted to the program with the expectation of 5-hour
work days, Monday through Saturday (30 hours/week total except
unfortunately there are frequent days when there's no work). This
worked quite well for quite a while, especially because it helped
us weed-out very quickly guys who came here who weren't going
to be tough or dedicated enough. Of the 25, many quit not because
the work was too hard or because the training was too hard, but
rather of course because the two together is extremely hard. In
that sense, BKH is about the survival of the fittest, which is
why those that succeed here for any amount of time get so strong,
i.e. physically strong at least with the opportunity to becoming
spiritually strong as well depending on what they're made of to
begin with.

Here's where the end part of this essay
starts to merge with the end of the previous one, because this
5 hours of manual labor per day to support BKH didn't always work
as well as it did there for awhile. Of course even the strongest
of guys can get burned out maintaining this routine and that's
normal. However, of course, BKH is not about making "normal"
guys. Obviously, if you read the above essay on "Maturity",
you'll be able to identify the fact that those guys who were failing
there at the end of last year where exhibiting all the symptoms
of getting "burned out" with such an amazingly difficult
routine. And it's a fine line that the BKH program director has
had no choice but to try to walk from the beginning:
"Don't take the boys to Japan this
year and some will quit because dormitory life is so hard AND
the average BKH resident isn't historically of a strong enough
character to continue such a hard lifestyle without frequent,
substantial rewards such as the excitement and honor of fighting
in Japan in one of the world's strongest tournaments. Take them
to Japan this year, on the other hand, and guys will be motivated
to continue but the only way to afford it is to work them half
to death (figuratively speaking of course), and then put the remaining
quarter of the cost on your own credit card, AGAIN."
In the end of last years collapse, the
guys were having trouble scheduling work for themselves, of course,
because they were getting to the work sites and doing crappy work.
Their days got shorter (4 hours with all the breaks instead of
the 5 they were getting paid for) and the quality of the work
diminished. If 5 guys go to a construction site and a contractor
pays the five of them $50/hour for 5 hours, he expects to get
$250 worth of work done. Of course he does! And to the credit
of this class of BKH resident, MUCH of the time, these contractors
LOVED to have BKH residents working for them because, MUCH of
the time, these guys worked twice as hard as the average day laborer.
Those days that they treated the work like training, certainly,
they did 10 hours worth average day labor in 5 hours. But the
bottom line of all of this that you need to pay very close attention
to if you're considering applying to BKH is that even those guys
that were so strong (as to win all the competitions you've seen
on the website) weren't quite strong enough to endure BKH's 3
years of training because "strong enough" means both
physically AND in terms of character development.
There's no question that it will be very
hard but if you come to resent the "hand that feeds you"
because your life is hard, even though that "hand that feeds
you" is feeding you at a perpetual loss (i.e. no profit to
date for BKH, no salary to date paid its director), the bottom
line is that YOU'LL BE SHOWING YOURSELF TO BE NOT STRONG ENOUGH
TO COMPLETE THE PROGRAM because THIS IS WHAT THE PROGRAM IS. It's
not what you wish it was. It's what it is. It is extremely hard,
and it has been advertised from the beginning as such. These young
guys that read the advertisement and decide immediately that their
prayers have been answered while at the same time failing to believe
what's written on the page in front of them to read are destined
to fail here. We at BKH are not about making mediocre fighters
and instructors of Budo Karate; we're about making champions and
the country's best instructors. We could sell out on that goal,
and brush people through who weren't developing both their bodies
and their characters, but we don't. This has been outlined in
our literature very clearly from the beginning.
Chapter three, of this story of labor performed
by BKH residents to support the program has only just begun. Jarrett
McIntyre and Robert Schnoes are both currently working installing
satellite dishes at people's homes. It's less physically demanding
than the the manual labor that the earlier class did, but it's
much more technologically demanding and it requires a much higher
degree of personal responsibility. They have to do a lot of driving
and essentially manage themselves once on the job. For the time
being it's working well and they make a lot more than $10/hour
which, in the long run, ought to make things easier for everyone.
They are both reminded frequently that if times get rough, or
if this job doesn't work out for whatever reason, there's always
the type of manual labor that other residents have done in the
past and they are reminded to prepare themselves in case that
option becomes a necessity for any reason.
(Residents with criminal records, and
poor driving records will not be able to do this kind of work
even if it is available. Furthermore, no resident will be allowed
to do this kind of work who can demonstrate to the program director
that they're mature enough to handle it both in terms of safety
and professionalism. All BKH applicants, therefore, should expect
that a part of their routine here in the BKH program for three
years will be MANUAL LABOR.)
We sincerely hope, by the way, that senior
students by the time they reach their 3rd year will not have to
work at all. We'd much rather have them teaching classes in the
dojo (or future dojos) but whether or not that can ever become
a reality depends both on the growth of the program (and dojo
student body) and also on the individual's personal development.
One of the reasons why a couple of these guys who quit were likely
angry, was because their instructor often told them that if they
played their cards right they ought to be able to be instructors
by the time they were in their 3rd years rather than manual laborers.
What they failed to understand, however, was the "if you
play your cards right" part of that concept. Reaching that
point, means developing a certain level of achievement in the
dormitory population in terms of growth and maturity. The dormitory's
growth, of course, depends on the personal growth of its senior
members and since those senior members ultimately failed to grow
up in the way that they needed to, the dormitory population remained
small and of a quality that could not have supported that kind
of 3rd year future for them. If you're succeeding here, therefore,
we encourage you to HOPE that by the time you're in your 3rd year
you can replace most of your time spent working with time spent
training and teaching junior members. However the only way to
be as sure as possible of your chances of success here is to EXPECT
that you will spend the entirety of the program doing the minimum
amount of work necessary in order to maximize your time and energy
for training.
Bottom line: The primary element to understand
for future applicants is that working the equivalent of 5 hours
per day, 6 days per week (sometimes more, often less) is a requirement
of participation in the program. It's a vital part, of course,
of any young man's education towards responsibility, but more
than that it's also a necessity in terms of putting food on the
table and quality competitions at our fingertips. Money does NOT
grow on trees in the BKH dormitory, and you would be well cautioned
to understand these two facts very well: 1. The work that you
will do here at BKH is very, very hard work in conjunction with
the training. 2. The BKH program director has taken money out
of his own pocket time and time again in order to make up the
difference when BKH residents' earnings fail to meet the mark,
and you would be smart therefore to think of him as a SPONSOR
as much of as a teacher. You will work very hard, yes, but the
amount of work that BKH residents have done to date has never
been enough to pay for the benefits they receive. If you come
here and start taking the BKH director's sponsorship for granted
-- like this recent failed class ultimately did -- then you will
wear out your welcome here and BKH maintains the right to withdraw
that sponsorship from you at any time. No matter how hard you
work, if you're not growing up and "getting with the program",
you will be asked to leave.
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How to Apply for
RESIDENTIAL Program
(No need to apply to Durham dojo. Just come train!)
Residential
Program
There is only one way to apply: Please send a $20 application
fee (check or money order) to the following address:
Budo Karate House
2518 Millwood Court
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
You will be sent additional information
and a very detailed application form designed to weed-out from
the beginning those whose interest is only a passing one. Note:
The above address is NOT our physical address. Uninvited guests
are not allowed at the dormitory and any interested parties
who show up at the dormitory uninvited will ensure that they
will not be admitted at any time in the future. Dormitory physical
address and telephone number (etc.) will be given to admitted
applicants BEFORE they travel to enter the dormitory so they'll
have plenty of time to make travel arrangements and let their
families know where they're going to be.
Please note: We will NOT admit
any student to the BKH Dormitory who shows up at the newly opened
Ligo Dojo in search of information or a peek at training.
Please DO NOT call or visit Ligo Dojo
if you are interested in the BKH residential program. We will
NOT admit any student to the BKH Dormitory who has visited Ligo
Dojo, we do not have additional information there to distribute
to you in person, and we will not give you an application in
person. Ligo Dojo has only just been opened and all you would
see if you visited is a relatively small group of students who
are all beginners and who are NOT training on the professional,
several-hours-per-day level as BKH Dormitory residents. The
majority of BKH training for residents happens either outside
of the dojo or at times that the dojo is not open to the public.
Due to the nature of our advertising which suggests "FREE
Dormitory" we have had all kinds of "nut-cases"
respond including several who have believed that if they just
bypassed the application process and showed up at our address
that they would be admitted. This is why, of course, we don't
list the dormitory physical address and we why we decided to
use our mail-forwarding service in Washington, DC: We were very
relieved that the few "nut-cases" who showed up at
our mailing address found nothing other than a mail box. Our
application process is very strict and one of the tests that
you must pass for admission is demonstrating your ability to
follow instructions. The prescribed process is not hard so don't
try to create your own. Thank you for understanding.
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Contact Budo Karate
House concerning admission?
We will by happy to answer any questions that
you have once we have your completed application in hand. Accordingly,
contact information is included in the application materials that
you will receive upon writing to request an application. If you
read the website carefully, it's very likely that most of your
questions will already be answered. Consequently we will frown
upon applications from any applicant who asks us questions that
are already explained on the website or in additional written
application materials. A word of advice:
1. Read everything
on the "About Budo Karate House" page.
2. Read everything on the "Program
Director" page.
3. Read everything on the "Dormitory
Life" page.
4. Read everything on the "Nonprofit
Org." page.
5. Read this entire page, "How
to Apply."
6. Browse through the photographs on the "Photo History"
page.
7. Visit the "Kyokushinkan Homepage".
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General Information
The residential program is designed
for young men between the ages of 17 and 23. We can not admit
any student younger that 17 years of age and we will only consider
students in their 20's, older than 23, under very special circumstances.
We do not currently have facilities for female residential students
although we would like to develop a BKH sister-program for young
women at some point in the future. We do not currently have
the means to sponsor foreigners for permission to reside in
the US in order to attend the residential program. As soon as
this changes (and we hope that it will), we will post that change
here. A driver's license is required for admittance and it is
strongly encouraged that interested parties obtain a passport.
As the BKH program is one designed to give residents a chance
to remake themselves, we to not expect for all applicants to
have blemishless pasts. If you are currently a smoker, you will
not be admitted without first quitting smoking (for at least
six months). If you have a serious criminal past (i.e. prison
time) it is very likely that you will NOT be admitted and we
do perform background checks.
Whereas certain aspects of the program
or application process/entrance requirements may seem imposing,
we are eagerly awaiting the applications and arrivals of new
applicants interested in becoming the newest members of our
team. Only a handful are succeeding of 40 who have been admitted.
This doesn't mean that we don't WANT each and every applicant
to be successful. On the contrary, we will do everything in
our power to help you succeed. The only thing we can not do
for you is change our policies or lower our standards. We will
create the strongest fighters/best instructors of this young
generation in America, and it is our contention that these fighters/instructors
will come from widely varied backgrounds. The program is designed
to remake you into a athlete/fighter/instructor from who you
are on day one. It is NOT a requirement of admission that you
already fit this profile. The program is designed to take the
average Joe, or even someone a little weaker than the
average Joe, and make him into a champion.
Please note: The BKH dormitory program is designed to test the
student's willpower by subjecting them to an uninterrupted 1000
days of training. We do a fair amount of traveling while in
the program and friends and family of residents have gone to
tournaments to watch in the past, but interested applicants
should understand that is program is definitely NOT one in which
residents have weekends off to do as they please. (Residents
are encouraged to write letters to their friends and family
and they are allowed access to a phone). The ex-BKH resident
who holds the record for enduring an uninterrupted 30 months
in the program was well on his way to completing the program
as it was meant to be completed, i.e. he was in the dormitory
for 30 months without vacation. The BKH program has no religious
affiliation and we do not practice any religious discrimination
or instruction, i.e. if you can practice your religion without
interfering with dormitory routines, all the power to you. The
purpose of the 1000 days of uninterrupted, semi-monastic training
is to develop physical and spiritual strength. There is no element
of the BKH program designed or likely to alter residents' personalities
in any way other than the gradual weeding-out of vice, weakness
and weak attitudes.
The BKH program is a government recognized
501.c.3 nonprofit organization with public charity status. To
date (September 2005) the program director (head instructor
and founder) has never once in 5 years of operation received
a salary or any kind of financial compensation whatsoever for
this full-time occupation. (Obviously, he has income from other
sources, and hopes that as the program grows and we begin to
open dojos that BKH will eventually pay him a salary.) Consequently,
whereas BKH residents do work to help support the program financially
(mostly manual labor), 100% of the income from this work goes
into funding their own personal training, and into funding a
nonprofit organization which exists largely TO SUPPORT THEM
and their careers in the future. Even BKH's newest members will
travel overseas this year two or three times for international
competition and all associated expenses are paid for by the
program.
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Eligibility
The following is a sneak-peak as to one of
the documents you will receive with your application materials
by mail. If you can answer "yes" to all of the below
questions you may consider yourself invited to enter the BKH
program provided you follow the instructions correctly (instructions
that will be included in your application materials) on how
to make your preparations and "check in" to the dormitory.
Many people who are accepted to the program can not answer "yes"
to all of the below questions and we will still consider you
for acceptance if you can't. Not being able to answer "yes"
to all the questions below simply means that we will need you
to fill out the more-detailed application before we can invite
you to simply show up at the dormitory. Included with the below
questionnaire is a warning about being untruthful concerning
any of the questions on the questionnaire. If you lie, we will
find out about it, and you will be excluded from participation
in the dormitory program at any time in the future.
1.
Are you male and older than 18 (at the time you sign and have
notarized your entrance agreement) and will you be younger than
23 at the time you enter the dormitory?
2. Are you free of an
adult criminal record (includes felonies and misdemeanors but
not moving violations) and are there no outstanding warrants
out of your arrest in any state?
3. Are you heterosexual,
currently not involved in a romantic relationship, unmarried,
without children, and free of any family responsibility that
may interrupt your 3 years training and BKH?
4. Are you free of any
medical concerns that would effect your living the life of a
serious athlete for three years, are you free of any medical
concerns that would require anyone taking care of your needs
for three years to spend any money (on medications, treatments,
dental conditions, etc.), and have you never: 1. used intravenously-administered
illegal drugs, 2. had even a single sexual encounter with a
prostitute, a male, or promiscuous partner unprotected, or 3.
spent even one night in jail.?
5. Do you understand
that by accepting our invitation and entering the BKH dormitory
program you are promising on your honor to complete three years
in the program, do you understand that you are ineligible for
entry if your intention is to spend any period of time less
than that in the dormitory, and are you at least potentially
interested in a career in martial arts instruction following
your graduation from the BKH program?
6. Are you a nonsmoker
(including marijuana), have you been so for at least 6 months,
and are you free of any addictions to any drug or alcohol?
7. Are you a US citizen
and are you eligible for a US passport?
8. Do you weigh less
than 180 pounds if you are 5'6" or shorter, less than 210
pounds if you are 6' or shorter, or less than 240 pounds if
you are taller than 6'?
9. Are you free of any
injuries, or conditions, that would prevent you from running
every morning, 6 days per week?
10. Do you have a valid
driver's license (that will not expire for at least your first
year in the BKH program), and can you bring it with you along
with a social security card or birth certificate?
11. Do you have any religious
beliefs that prevent you from participating in any normal activity,
and if you are religious, are the practices that you follow
such that you can refrain from subjecting them to others with
whom you reside? Do you understand that in BKH we do not either
encourage or discourage any religious belief, but that we will
not make any exception for you an in any situation if there
is some religious practice that you feel you must participate
in if it in any way conflicts with dormitory routines?
12. Do you understand
the meaning of and are you willing to sign the enclosed "On
the Nature of the BKH Program . . ." document in the presence
of a notary and bring it with you when you come?
13. Do you understand
the meaning of and are you willing to sign the enclosed "Premature
Departure Guidelines" document in the presence of a notary
and bring it with you when you come?
14. Have you read all
of the information contained in this packet and all of the information
on the BKH website at www.budokaratehouse.com?
15. Are you NOT a neo-nazi
or white-supremist, and do you NOT have any body markings (tattoos)
that might suggest that you are?
16. Are there NO any other concerns that you
have that makes you wonder whether we would admit you if we
only knew ************ about you or your past? (Please remember
that we maintain the right to throw you out of the program at
any time and that includes if you came having answered "yes"
to all of these questions, but failed to disclose any piece
of information unique to your own personal situation that you
wonder if we'd accept you "if we only knew." (This
questionnaire doesn't ask you for example if you're a quadriplegic
and if you were you might still be able to answer "yes"
to all the above questions but once we met you we will still
turn you away, with regrets and sympathy, as ineligible.) If
there's anything about your person you think we'd want to know,
we very strongly advise you to complete the detailed application
form.
17. Have you read carefully
and do you understand the following statement written by the
program director on comforts and freedoms within the BKH program?
Comforts
and Freedoms in the BKH Program
"The purpose
of the BKH program is to make you tough, and one of the means
by which the BKH program works to achieve this goal is to deny
you certain comforts and freedoms that young American men take
for granted. For example when I (program director) was in the
dormitory program that I attended in Japan, I had a Walkman,
but I was not allowed to listen to it for about 3 months after
I began the program. There was a TV in the dormitory but I never
once watched it for my first year in the program and was allowed
to watch a video (movie) once every week after that time. All
of my meals were chosen for me, none of them included certain
things I came to long for such as pizza and tacos, and I was
required to eat everything that was put before me to eat.
I was not allowed
to leave the dormitory / dojo without permission, and when I
was granted permission it was rare, and only to take care of
necessary functions such as going to the post office or to the
doctor's office. In my 2nd year in the dormitory, I was granted
a free day off from 10 am to 10 PM, once every two weeks during
which I went to movies and ate fast food, etc., but there was
literally none of that type of freedom in my first year, and
I was never allowed to take that freedom for granted in my second
because if they needed me to work or train in the dormitory/dojo
I could be denied my "day off" at any time. I always
had enough to eat, but sometimes my meals were prepared by other
residents and sometimes they didn't do a good job, and yet I
ate what was put in front of me without complaint anyway.
Often times,
instruction that I received was given by my seniors in the dormitory
(students who'd been there longer that I), often times I was
scolded by them for not living up to their expectations, and
in some cases, even though they were my seniors, they were not
of a very strong intelligence or sense of character, yet I was
required to do as they said anyway and not talk back. If I was
told to clean a toilet by a senior student, I cleaned the toilet.
(My teacher expected me to report to him immediately if I was
ever ordered to do anything unethical by a senior student and
I never was.)
I was very often
- almost daily, in fact, for some periods of time - beaten quite
severely in the dojo. I was never beaten in a "please,
please don't hit me" type situation in which I was helpless
and begging for mercy -- because of course I never did that
-- but it was rather in a in-dojo controlled fighting situation
in which I'd either displeased the senior student (or teacher)
I was fighting with, or in which he'd decided that it was time
for me to get my ass kicked a little bit to learn my place better,
or to learn what it felt like because getting beaten in fights
is a necessary part of learning to win them. Getting "beaten"
in these situations never included getting injured (I never
had broken bones although I saw a few broken), but they often
required getting my thighs pounded with Thai Boxing-style low
kicks until I could no longer stand, or getting my wind knocked
out (or actually getting myself knocked out a couple times).
I saw a number of faces get slapped when students became way
out of line. (Don't let this scare you too much; remember our
goal is for you to succeed, and new students are introduced
to full-contact fighting at a very reasonable pace.)
There was a
several week long period in the summer that I slept every night
in a puddle of sweat, waking up every 20 or 30 minutes to put
cold towels on my forehead and chest because Tokyo was so hot
and we had no air conditioning. There was also no heat in our
bedroom and we had plenty of blankets, but sometimes when we
slept we could see our own breath and it didn't matter if the
windows were opened or closed since they weren't insulated anyway.
In Japan, I washed all of my own laundry by hand in a wash tub
and hung it out to dry. Not only that, but for my first three
months there, there was a jerk of a senior student who made
me wash his clothes as well, which I did without complaint.
Now, things
are different at BKH. We have a washing machine and a dryer
and it's rare that students here go three months without Walkmans
or one year without a TV. However, you absolutely must understand
that it is very much an element of our teaching method to make
you tough by making your life hard and by denying you certain
comforts and freedoms that you take for granted. After all,
you can't become strong in soft living conditions. You have
to remember that if you're coming here to change your mind and
your body into that of a champion fighter. If you're wanting
to come here because it's free and you think it's going to be
more comfortable than where you are now, you're probably making
a mistake. If you're coming here because you think we're going
to be less demanding of you or less strict than your parents,
you're definitely making a mistake.
Remember that
we want you to become successful. We'll never try to break you
(unless your attitude is really bad) but make sure you understand
that there's a lot more to success here than just staying here
for three years. If we fed you guys pizza and let you do as
you pleased, every one could endure three years, but no one
would be strong. You're going to be given great advantages here
in terms of getting stronger and making yourself into a better
person. If you persistently fail to do so, however, you will
not graduate."
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The
"Cost" to you of Attending the BKH Dormitory Program
1. There is no cost
to attend the BKH program but you will be expected to work while
in the program to help support the program's nonprofit activities
(which is mostly supporting you and your dream of becoming a
Budo Karate fighter / instructor). None of the product of your
labor performed while in BKH will be returned to you at any
time regardless of whether or not you complete the program.
2. There is the nonrefundable
$20 application fee, mentioned above, due when you write in
to order application materials.
3. No one will be admitted
to the program who can not agree (in writing) to complete a
two-week notice period should they quit the program prematurely
in order to preserve the professional relationships between
BKH and area employers. I.e. if you quit the program, your training
activities will cease, but you will not be admitted unless you
can agree to remain in the dormitory (following dormitory rules
and eating dormitory meals) to continue to work your job that
you have as a BKH resident for a standard two-week notice period.
The contractual consequence of "running away" from
that two-week notice period will be the monetary value of two
weeks of work.
4. No one will be admitted
to the program without turning in upon entering the program
a $300 entrance deposit WHICH WILL BE
RETURNED TO YOU either upon graduation from the program
OR upon the completion of your 2-week notice should you quit
the program prematurely. (This means that you will have means
to travel home when you leave the dormitory.) Of course there
are no bars on the dormitory and residents can simply walk away
if they decide they've had enough. From now on however there
will be a consequence of this decision: i.e. the value of the
two weeks of work that you walked away from starting with the
forfeit of your $300 entry deposit.
The 2-week notice rule
is a new element to the BKH program as of this past year. This
means that many of the just-under-40 BKH residents to date who
have quit, simply walked away without any consequence to their
breaking of their honor-based promise to complete 3 years of
training at BKH. Meanwhile of course, BKH, its director, and
remaining dormitory residents suffered the financial and professional
consequences of those guys simply "walking off" their
jobs. This rule, therefore, have been added IN
ORDER TO PROTECT THE PROGRAM from guys who aren't cut
out for it and who lack the sense of honor to do the right thing
on their own. You don't walk off your jobs at home without giving
two-weeks notice, so why should you here?
The
bottom line, restated: The cost of BKH is $20 when you apply
and the promise of two weeks of working should you quit the
program prematurely.
Please remember that
the reason for all this detailed material on the website and
in the application materials is so that you WILL NOT BE SURPRISED
by any element of the BKH program. Some people will read #3
and #4 above and say "forget it! I'm not going to sign
something like that!" If that's your reaction, look at
the photographs on the "Photo History" link and count
former student DL's overseas trips to compete in competitions
and participate in seminars during the just-shy-of three years
that he lived and ate in the BKH dormitory. How much did that
cost him? It cost him TWENTY DOLLARS and lots of blood, sweat
and tears. If you would like to participate in the BKH program
and not do any work while you're here, we will consider tuition
offers beginning at $1000 per month.
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