Eligibility
The following is a sneak-peak as to one of
the documents you will receive with your application materials
by mail. If you can answer "yes" to all of the below
questions you may consider yourself invited to enter the BKH program
provided you follow the instructions correctly (instructions that
will be included in your application materials) on how to make
your preparations and "check in" to the dormitory. Many
people who are accepted to the program can not answer "yes"
to all of the below questions and we will still consider you for
acceptance if you can't. Not being able to answer "yes"
to all the questions below simply means that we will need you
to fill out the more-detailed application before we can invite
you to simply show up at the dormitory. Included with the below
questionnaire is a warning about being untruthful concerning any
of the questions on the questionnaire. If you lie, we will find
out about it, and you will be excluded from participation in the
dormitory program at any time in the future.
1.
Are you male and older than 18 (at the time you sign and have
notarized your entrance agreement) and will you be younger than
23 at the time you enter the dormitory?
2. Are you free of an adult
criminal record (includes felonies and misdemeanors but not moving
violations) and are there no outstanding warrants out of your
arrest in any state?
3. Are you heterosexual,
currently not involved in a romantic relationship, unmarried,
without children, and free of any family responsibility that may
interrupt your 3 years training and BKH?
4. Are you free of any
medical concerns that would effect your living the life of a serious
athlete for three years, are you free of any medical concerns
that would require anyone taking care of your needs for three
years to spend any money (on medications, treatments, dental conditions,
etc.), and have you never: 1. used intravenously-administered
illegal drugs, 2. had even a single sexual encounter with a prostitute,
a male, or promiscuous partner unprotected, or 3. spent even one
night in jail.?
5. Do you understand that
by accepting our invitation and entering the BKH dormitory program
you are promising on your honor to complete three years in the
program, do you understand that you are ineligible for entry if
your intention is to spend any period of time less than that in
the dormitory, and are you at least potentially interested in
a career in martial arts instruction following your graduation
from the BKH program?
6. Are you a nonsmoker
(including marijuana), have you been so for at least 6 months,
and are you free of any addictions to any drug or alcohol?
7. Are you a US citizen
and are you eligible for a US passport?
8. Do you weigh less than
180 pounds if you are 5'6" or shorter, less than 210 pounds
if you are 6' or shorter, or less than 240 pounds if you are taller
than 6'?
9. Are you free of any
injuries, or conditions, that would prevent you from running every
morning, 6 days per week?
10. Do you have a valid
driver's license (that will not expire for at least your first
year in the BKH program), and can you bring it with you along
with a social security card or birth certificate?
11. Do you have any religious
beliefs that prevent you from participating in any normal activity,
and if you are religious, are the practices that you follow such
that you can refrain from subjecting them to others with whom
you reside? Do you understand that in BKH we do not either encourage
or discourage any religious belief, but that we will not make
any exception for you an in any situation if there is some religious
practice that you feel you must participate in if it in any way
conflicts with dormitory routines?
12. Do you understand the
meaning of and are you willing to sign the enclosed "On the
Nature of the BKH Program . . ." document in the presence
of a notary and bring it with you when you come?
13. Do you understand the
meaning of and are you willing to sign the enclosed "Premature
Departure Guidelines" document in the presence of a notary
and bring it with you when you come?
14. Have you read all of
the information contained in this packet and all of the information
on the BKH website at www.budokaratehouse.com?
15. Are you NOT a neo-nazi
or white-supremist, and do you NOT have any body markings (tattoos)
that might suggest that you are?
16. Are there NO any other concerns that you
have that makes you wonder whether we would admit you if we only
knew ************ about you or your past? (Please remember that
we maintain the right to throw you out of the program at any time
and that includes if you came having answered "yes"
to all of these questions, but failed to disclose any piece of
information unique to your own personal situation that you wonder
if we'd accept you "if we only knew." (This questionnaire
doesn't ask you for example if you're a quadriplegic and if you
were you might still be able to answer "yes" to all
the above questions but once we met you we will still turn you
away, with regrets and sympathy, as ineligible.) If there's anything
about your person you think we'd want to know, we very strongly
advise you to complete the detailed application form.
17. Have you read carefully
and do you understand the following statement written by the program
director on comforts and freedoms within the BKH program?
Comforts
and Freedoms in the BKH Program
"The purpose
of the BKH program is to make you tough, and one of the means
by which the BKH program works to achieve this goal is to deny
you certain comforts and freedoms that young American men take
for granted. For example when I (program director) was in the
dormitory program that I attended in Japan, I had a Walkman, but
I was not allowed to listen to it for about 3 months after I began
the program. There was a TV in the dormitory but I never once
watched it for my first year in the program and was allowed to
watch a video (movie) once every week after that time. All of
my meals were chosen for me, none of them included certain things
I came to long for such as pizza and tacos, and I was required
to eat everything that was put before me to eat.
I was not allowed
to leave the dormitory / dojo without permission, and when I was
granted permission it was rare, and only to take care of necessary
functions such as going to the post office or to the doctor's
office. In my 2nd year in the dormitory, I was granted a free
day off from 10 am to 10 PM, once every two weeks during which
I went to movies and ate fast food, etc., but there was literally
none of that type of freedom in my first year, and I was never
allowed to take that freedom for granted in my second because
if they needed me to work or train in the dormitory/dojo I could
be denied my "day off" at any time. I always had enough
to eat, but sometimes my meals were prepared by other residents
and sometimes they didn't do a good job, and yet I ate what was
put in front of me without complaint anyway.
Often times, instruction
that I received was given by my seniors in the dormitory (students
who'd been there longer that I), often times I was scolded by
them for not living up to their expectations, and in some cases,
even though they were my seniors, they were not of a very strong
intelligence or sense of character, yet I was required to do as
they said anyway and not talk back. If I was told to clean a toilet
by a senior student, I cleaned the toilet. (My teacher expected
me to report to him immediately if I was ever ordered to do anything
unethical by a senior student and I never was.)
I was very often
- almost daily, in fact, for some periods of time - beaten quite
severely in the dojo. I was never beaten in a "please, please
don't hit me" type situation in which I was helpless and
begging for mercy -- because of course I never did that -- but
it was rather in a in-dojo controlled fighting situation in which
I'd either displeased the senior student (or teacher) I was fighting
with, or in which he'd decided that it was time for me to get
my ass kicked a little bit to learn my place better, or to learn
what it felt like because getting beaten in fights is a necessary
part of learning to win them. Getting "beaten" in these
situations never included getting injured (I never had broken
bones although I saw a few broken), but they often required getting
my thighs pounded with Thai Boxing-style low kicks until I could
no longer stand, or getting my wind knocked out (or actually getting
myself knocked out a couple times). I saw a number of faces get
slapped when students became way out of line. (Don't let this
scare you too much; remember our goal is for you to succeed, and
new students are introduced to full-contact fighting at a very
reasonable pace.)
There was a several
week long period in the summer that I slept every night in a puddle
of sweat, waking up every 20 or 30 minutes to put cold towels
on my forehead and chest because Tokyo was so hot and we had no
air conditioning. There was also no heat in our bedroom and we
had plenty of blankets, but sometimes when we slept we could see
our own breath and it didn't matter if the windows were opened
or closed since they weren't insulated anyway. In Japan, I washed
all of my own laundry by hand in a wash tub and hung it out to
dry. Not only that, but for my first three months there, there
was a jerk of a senior student who made me wash his clothes as
well, which I did without complaint.
Now, things are
different at BKH. We have a washing machine and a dryer and it's
rare that students here go three months without Walkmans or one
year without a TV. However, you absolutely must understand that
it is very much an element of our teaching method to make you
tough by making your life hard and by denying you certain comforts
and freedoms that you take for granted. After all, you can't become
strong in soft living conditions. You have to remember that if
you're coming here to change your mind and your body into that
of a champion fighter. If you're wanting to come here because
it's free and you think it's going to be more comfortable than
where you are now, you're probably making a mistake. If you're
coming here because you think we're going to be less demanding
of you or less strict than your parents, you're definitely making
a mistake.
Remember that
we want you to become successful. We'll never try to break you
(unless your attitude is really bad) but make sure you understand
that there's a lot more to success here than just staying here
for three years. If we fed you guys pizza and let you do as you
pleased, every one could endure three years, but no one would
be strong. You're going to be given great advantages here in terms
of getting stronger and making yourself into a better person.
If you persistently fail to do so, however, you will not graduate."